My partner and I are very much in the throws of a fresh, three-month-old relationship. Everything is great for the most part except for an issue with E.D. He's waiting for his Viagra prescription to come in, which is a step in the right direction, but I worry most about his lack of sexuality. He doesn't have a whole lot of penile sensation so his orgasms have never been earth-rattling. With the lack of normal cues for what feels good or what turns someone on it is making it increasingly difficult to really want to engage in sex. I know he loves having sex with me because he loves the connection, but it's never really powerful. I don't feel a ton of sexual energy from him, so then I don't feel very sexy. I just don't know how to handle this. Do I help him discover who he is as a sexual man? Is that my job? Maybe he will never be that guy? Please HELP!
While Viagra is helpful, it will not get to the underlying issues of what is causing this challenge for you both.
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