Wednesday, October 03, 2007

Ask Karinna For Oct. 3, 2007

Dear Karinna,

My partner and I are very much in the throws of a fresh, three-month-old relationship. Everything is great for the most part except for an issue with E.D. He's waiting for his Viagra prescription to come in, which is a step in the right direction, but I worry most about his lack of sexuality. He doesn't have a whole lot of penile sensation so his orgasms have never been earth-rattling. With the lack of normal cues for what feels good or what turns someone on it is making it increasingly difficult to really want to engage in sex. I know he loves having sex with me because he loves the connection, but it's never really powerful. I don't feel a ton of sexual energy from him, so then I don't feel very sexy. I just don't know how to handle this. Do I help him discover who he is as a sexual man? Is that my job? Maybe he will never be that guy? Please HELP!

-- T.

Dear T.,

While Viagra is helpful, it will not get to the underlying issues of what is causing this challenge for you both.

These are some suggestions that I have for you to share with your lover:

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